C.E. Dorsett Hate is the Republican Party's plan for reelection of this year... a fear of families: At least 16 states are considering whether gay men and lesbians are fit to be parents, USA Today reported Tuesday (Gay.com). I am literally shaking as I write this. Gay Adoption is really a threat to this country? Children having loving families is a bad thing? The very thought does violence to the national soul. Do we really believe that Gay adoption will destroy the country?